My French Country Home by Sharon Santoni

Saturday, 2 July 2011

making choices and moving forward

Maybe it's just an age thing, but these days I feel the 
need for more peace and positivity around me.




I no longer wish to spend time with people who deliberately talk badly of others, who put people  down, who criticise uselessly.   Younger, I may have been disturbed by their comments, tried to change their opinion, curry their favour.  Today, I simply turn a page.  Take two steps back, turn around and walk away.  It is simple actually.

Let's spread some positive-ness .  It's fun to showcase others good points, to see them blossom under the spotlight.  It has nothing to do with religion or politics, all about feeling good and making others feel good too!

In the same way that we try to  find the best vantage point when taking a photo, we can also pinpoint the best way to approach a situation, or get to know someone.  Keep our eyes and minds open for the good bits, take no notice of the bad.

It is more enjoyable to move forward, build, learn and hopefully help to create some harmony and well being.  It is healthier  for the body and the mind.  The feel good factor is way greater.

One of the things I appreciate in this blogging world, is the kindness and generosity shown between bloggers.   Sometimes this is merely intelligent mutual promotion, but often it springs from a genuine joy at something shared, admiration for the talents of others.  And goodness knows there's tons of that floating around the blogosphere.

That's it for today; no decorating, no flowers, nothing French.  Just the need to think kind thoughts and to wish you all a loving and generous weekend!



Sorry I can't credit this picture, I found it on google.  Happy to correct if someone knows the source!

30 comments:

  1. What a lovely post. Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to be kind. Have a wonderful weekend also.

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  2. Love this post and just want you to know what a kind blog friend you are I am grateful to you for your generosity and support
    Your blog is a inspiration to me and to others as well
    xxoo
    Pam

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  3. What beautiful thoughts...I've come to be the same way. Life is too short and I feel I don't have the precious time to waste on anything but things that bring me peace and happiness. It is simple once you realize you have the power to make your life and others positive and beautiful.
    Thanks for being an inspiration...I don't always comment but I do read and think about what you share.... :)
    Sarah

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  4. I've always felt that we find what we look for. If we seek positivity and beauty, we'll find it. If we only look for the bad, we'll find that as well. It's pretty much up to us. Excellent post!

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  5. I agree wholeheartedly with you. A year and a half ago I found myself in a extremely negative environment in a new job. I made such a conscious effort to improve the vibe and although it wasn't all my doing I feel I helped set the tone.
    Things actually improved quite quickly and now the environment is quite pleasant and the negative people are gone.
    It is a choice.

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  6. Wonderful post, Sharon! Years ago I learned to let go of negativity and preconceived ideas about people and started to enter into new friendships without caution and with positive thoughts. This had made all the difference in my life. This, of course, extends into the blogging world where I see so much kindness and warmth. I'm so happy I have reached this point in my life!

    XO,
    Jane

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  7. Dear Sharon, such lovely words, so beautifully expressed. Thanks for this wonderful message...I know that in my mind I will go back to this post and will remember these lovely and positive thoughts.

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  8. I couldn't agree more with Pamela Terry. I've noticed with age I've grown weary of the draining games some people play. I've really grown to understand the true "Peace be with you." It takes work to resist getting sucked into that negative world but when you do you'll find the peace that makes for a healthy life.
    Kathy

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  9. Hola Sharon, I agree with you, I so love this blogging world because all of us women do our best to see the positive aspects of ourselves and life.
    hugs dear
    p.s I so love your blog

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  10. Ah yes... I was thinking also how we sometimes edit out the ugly. Cut off the part that isn't so lovely and keep the good. May we also remember that with each other, to look with the artists eye leaving out what isn't good and focusing on the beauty.

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  11. Very well said. I wish I could put a summary of these thoughts on a billboard.

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  12. As a huge fan of attempting to be positive a majority of the time I appreciate the reminder of this way of thinking/acting. Thank you and have a relaxing and positive weekend!
    Karen

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  13. very well-said and certainly words to live by!

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  14. No need for beautiful pictures, that beautiful thought is more than enough.

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  15. You provoke thougt what a great article ! You are fantastic mummy ! I am so proud of you <3

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  16. Thank you Sharon I wholeheartedly agree. A beautiful post.....kindness & happy thoughts to you and your family for the weekend.

    xox Kerry

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  17. Lovely thoughts, lovely comments. Wishing everyone a wonderful weekend.

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  18. Your words are a lovely picture of the heart your possess. Thank you for kind and lovely words to remember!

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  19. A lovely post Sharon and I feel the same as you. Have a lovely weekend,
    Anne xx

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  20. This is beautifully said and I do think it is an age thing. I find I am making the same kind of choices in my 40's. I regret all the debating I did in my 20's and I see my own almost 20 yr. old daughter doing the same as I did. But I know it will pass as she grows and matures. It is best to give her grace and encourage her in her kindness than point out her debating. She is just learning about the world and establishing her own identity and I must let her. Cheers to you for encouraging us to live in harmony with one another. ox

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  21. This couldn't have been more perfectly timed. I'm antsy, nervous, and already full of anticipation of negative vibes from my MIL during the upcoming holiday week. Sometimes, I just want to scream, "Stop criticizing everything...everyone". Be happy. Great timing to read your post today. I am already focusing on finding the positive in her words and giving myself space to walk away and breathe for awhile.

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  22. Sharon...I couldn't agree more.

    xo

    Jo

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  23. A beautiful post.A wise man once told us that if we wished to be peaceful and joyous, we must "get rid of gossip; this includes not gossiping or slandering film stars and famous people". In his words this is sinful and is also none of our business. It is between them and their God He also said if you are going to say something negative about a person be sure to ask yourself would you say this if the person were present. His words have stayed with me and I must say it is not always easy and I need a reminder such as your post.
    To a wornderful weekend
    Helen

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  24. Dear Sharon,
    I totally agree with you.

    But please go on showing images of your home and garden and ...

    :-)

    Bonne weekend!
    Franka

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  25. Thank you Sharon, we have to be reminded over and over again to be kind and spread beauty in this world that is so full of greed and evilness. Have a wounderful weekend! Ulrika

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  26. I read something recently... instead of the typical life is to short to be negative... the person wrote... "Life is far to long to be living everyday with a bad attitude." This is so true. Imagine living another 20, 30, 40, 50 years being a pill, as my Nana would have said. Much better to smile and send love into the world. :)

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  27. Thank you for the lovely post and the positivity you are shaing with your followers. It is easy to get caught up in negativity without realizing it, it becomes a way of being. Reminders and exercises in making positive choices make our days brighter.

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  28. Whole-heartedly agree with you! I do not want to spend extra time with people who do not want to do good. Rather avoid them.

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